Arwen and Guys
Publikováno 27.07.2013 v 22:14 v kategorii Arwenin elfí deníček, přečteno: 152x
Hi everyone! You might be surprised that I'm writing in English. There is only one reason for it: to practice my English skills, especially writing which as you will see in a moment is my Achilles' heel. However, I don't know you so I don't really care about all the mistakes I'm going to make. But don't worry, my stories remain Czech.
So yes, all this article is practically a complaining about men. I came across this idea when one of my female friends was complaining about her present dating with one guy. She was insecure whether this is gonna work out or not. I think she might not be completely into that person but still she is keeping this ''dating kind of relationship'' going. And then I realized how many women who do such a thing I know. Yes, a whole bunch of them.
The more serious thing I've discovered was that I also (from some point of my life on) keep in touch with guys I don't really want. Moreover, I was even on a date with a guy of whom I knew there can't be anything at all between us. And I know that this is completely my own fault and I am the only person to blame. Yes, poor guy, I shouldn't have done it, because he meant our relationship seriously.
Then I realized the reason why this is happening to me and many other women. At some point in our lives, we dream of our ideal Aragorn and we promise to ourselves that we never settle for anything else. But as we are getting more and more desperate and dissatisfied, we eventually lower our standards and we are closer to forget about our ideal Aragorn and are with just somebody who shows some interest in us.
It may sound horrible but it is the true, because almost all of my female friends are dissatisfied with their relationship. And the only cause of it is their reckless choice of a partner. Actually, the number of satisfied women in a relationship I know I could count on my one hand.
But where is the problem? Why is it happening? And I feel like I found the answer. It is due to the fact that women aren't doing anything to be happy in their lives, they are just waiting. They are waiting for their prince to come to their place. They think they don't need to do anything and their ideal match will come to them and do all the work. And what is worse, they often wait at places where no prince on his white horse can go (especially their homes). So they're (I should be using the pronoun ''we'' because I'm the same) so we're creating a paradox. Because if we only wait for a person to come to us, we will have a very limited range of men to date with. So we are waiting for somebody who wants us instead of going for somebody we want. And that is how this paradigm is created and ends in women not being happy in their relationships.
So I would say: Girls, if you aren't happy with the guy you're dating, find someone YOU want. And don't be afraid to do the first move. We are strong and confident women so I believe we can do this!
Nice evening to everyone!
your Arwen
(and guys I'm really interested about what you think about this topic, so regardless your sex, you can leave me a comment :) )
The more serious thing I've discovered was that I also (from some point of my life on) keep in touch with guys I don't really want. Moreover, I was even on a date with a guy of whom I knew there can't be anything at all between us. And I know that this is completely my own fault and I am the only person to blame. Yes, poor guy, I shouldn't have done it, because he meant our relationship seriously.
Then I realized the reason why this is happening to me and many other women. At some point in our lives, we dream of our ideal Aragorn and we promise to ourselves that we never settle for anything else. But as we are getting more and more desperate and dissatisfied, we eventually lower our standards and we are closer to forget about our ideal Aragorn and are with just somebody who shows some interest in us.
It may sound horrible but it is the true, because almost all of my female friends are dissatisfied with their relationship. And the only cause of it is their reckless choice of a partner. Actually, the number of satisfied women in a relationship I know I could count on my one hand.
But where is the problem? Why is it happening? And I feel like I found the answer. It is due to the fact that women aren't doing anything to be happy in their lives, they are just waiting. They are waiting for their prince to come to their place. They think they don't need to do anything and their ideal match will come to them and do all the work. And what is worse, they often wait at places where no prince on his white horse can go (especially their homes). So they're (I should be using the pronoun ''we'' because I'm the same) so we're creating a paradox. Because if we only wait for a person to come to us, we will have a very limited range of men to date with. So we are waiting for somebody who wants us instead of going for somebody we want. And that is how this paradigm is created and ends in women not being happy in their relationships.
So I would say: Girls, if you aren't happy with the guy you're dating, find someone YOU want. And don't be afraid to do the first move. We are strong and confident women so I believe we can do this!
Nice evening to everyone!
your Arwen
(and guys I'm really interested about what you think about this topic, so regardless your sex, you can leave me a comment :) )
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